Welcome to Mind Your Practice. I’m Beth Pickens and in this episode, I will talk about the illusion of perfection.
Ep. 3 It Was Perfcet...
Welcome to Mind Your Practice. I’m Beth Pickens and in this episode, I will talk about the illusion of perfection.
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Ep. 3 It was perfcet
Welcome to Mind Your Practice. I’m Beth Pickens and in this episode, I will talk about the illusion of perfection.
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Hello artists. One of my all time favorite camp moments on screen comes from Darren Aronofsky's 2010 film Black Swan. Natalie Portman’s ballerina character lays dying at the end of her intense dance performance and dramatically utters, “It was perfect.” I saw Black Swan in a San Francisco movie theater and my fellow audience members and I let out screams and laughs at this high camp moment that I don’t think was intended as camp. But what a campy metaphor for the dangers of perfection. Portman’s character fatally stabs herself, dances her final performance, then dies. Perfection kills, even in Rodarte designs, you can die of it.
Perfectionism is an obstacle for nearly every artist. Probably for every human, if we’re honest. We have a belief that there exists such a thing as perfection. I argue, dear listener, that it’s just an illusion, particularly in anything so subjective as art. Consider what you think would be perfect in your discipline or within your own work. If you approached or perhaps reached your internal idea or definition of perfect, your perfection barometer would move the end goal further away. It’s something always out of reach, always hazily in the distance.
This could sound motivating and for some, maybe it is. A goal that is always out of reach may keep a person moving, always striving, forever growing and trying. This isn’t how it pans out for most artists, though. Instead, perfection does a few harrowing things. Let’s discuss and unpack them.
I get stuck in perfectionism just like you. I put off writing season two of this very podcast because I was stuck in the perfection/procrastination loop: if I can’t write the script in its final form on the first try, it must mean I suck and I should give up. But I’m so glad I didn’t give up because if you’re connecting with my words right now, it means overriding perfectionism was worth it. So how do we counter perfectionism? I have a few ideas for you.
First: counter your perfectionism. What is it telling you? Do the opposite. For example, if your brain is telling you, “don’t work on your novel because you don’t know how to do it right in the first draft” then I want you to take a counter action by doing the opposite. In this case, it means working on your novel anyway. If your brain tells you, ‘don’t let anyone see this work in progress because it’s not perfect yet,’ then invite in a trusted, supportive friend. Tell them you want to know what they like about the work, what they want more of, and to tell you to KEEP GOING.
Second: pomodoro technique - set a timer for 20 minutes and work on the thing with permission to be imperfect, unfinished, maybe even mediocre. Telling myself something can be mediocre is liberating and the end result is always better than mediocre. We can do something for 20 minutes that scares us too much to do for an hour.
Third: conjure up an artist in your mind who you love. What would you tell them if they expressed their perfection-based fears to you? What if they said they weren’t going to share their work anymore because it’s not perfect? Imagine how much you love their work. What would it be like for them to point out all the mistakes they see, everything they think they did wrong? What would you say? How would you encourage them to override perfectionism? Give yourself that love and support.
Fourth: a practice-based practice. By this I mean having a part of your creative life that is totally detached from outcomes and expertise. Maybe you try something brand new that you know nothing about. Maybe it’s in a classroom setting, where you are one among many learners cultivating a beginners’ mind. Maybe it’s an artistic discipline you think yourself to be particularly bad at, giving yourself permission to just have wild fun with it. You’re a writer? Try picking up an instrument. You’re a visual artist? Take some movement classes. You’re a sound artist? Get into making comics. Try something very different from your area of experience and expertise.
Finally, let me know how it goes. I’d love to hear from you.